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Venus square Ascendant
The square between Venus and the Ascendant generates tension between the way one loves and values and the way one presents oneself to the world. Taste and affection do not quite harmonize with the image one projects or the first impulse to show oneself. This is a friction angle that asks for adjusting the expression of charm with the manner of appearing. It tends to manifest as a discomfort between the desire to please and the way one makes oneself known.
In a relationship
Between two people, this square chafes the way one offers affection against the manner in which the other presents themselves. The caring or appreciation of one person may clash with the way the other approaches relationships from the outset. This is not hostility but a mismatch between how one wants to be pleasing and how the other shows up. The aspect brings the opportunity to learn to read each other beyond first impressions. It creates tension when one person expects a certain warmth and the other responds with a style that does not match that expectation. The work consists of adjusting the way of approaching each other so that affection and presence can find dialogue. Recognizing differences in style relieves the friction. With patience, this dynamic refines the way each shows the other their care.
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