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Venus square Descendant
The square between Venus and the Descendant marks a tension between one's personal way of loving and enjoying and what one seeks or projects in relationships with others. Personal taste does not always coincide with what is expected from the other in a relationship. This is an angle of friction that calls for adjusting the affection one gives to match the affection one seeks to receive. It tends to express itself as a mismatch between one's own values and the expectations placed on the partner.
In a relationship
Between two people, this square crosses one person's way of offering affection with what the other expects from a close bond. The affection one gives may not quite fit the other's idea of partnership. This is not a loud clash but a mismatch between what is offered and what is longed for in the other. The aspect offers the opportunity to clarify what each person seeks in the encounter. Tension arises when one gives affection in their own way while the other expected something different from the bond. The work consists of discussing expectations rather than assuming they are understood. Recognizing the difference between giving and expecting releases the friction. With dialogue, this dynamic brings what each person offers closer to what the other actually needs.
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